My sexual accessibility has never been up to me, and this was a crucial and painful epiphany to have. Content Warning: this essay mentions depression and instances of sexual coercion. It’s not that I haven’t been celibate before. As someone who lives in the gray area of the asexual and aromantic spectrums, I’ve gone long […]
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Why I’m Nonbinary But Don’t Use ‘They/Them’
Long before I came out as nonbinary, for most of my life, I struggled with gender and gender performance. I spent most of my ...
