What A Sex Resort Taught Me About Shame
It took a few days at the resort to remember that sex doesn’t devalue me and is, in fact, something that adds value to my life. By Gabrielle Noel Last summer, while my friends were on baecations, I traveled with a
“Unicornland” Creator Lucy Gillespie Talks Sex Parties, Kink, Polyamory and Getting it Right
"I wanted to write something that portrayed a young woman's journey of sexual exploration, and that was an introduction to the New York scene's wonderful secret world." When I first heard about the web series Unicornland, I was pretty skeptical, if
How to Explore Kink Responsibly
After 50 Shades of Grey came out, the media acted like the author who wrote that garbage book invented kink. Three cheers for that book allowing some folks, especially women, to embrace new parts of their sexuality. So many jeers for
When Sex Positivity Isn’t: A Queer Dialogue
I’ve identified as sex positive since I first learned it was a thing while working in my college’s LGBT office. I love sex, I love pleasure, I support folks having sex and pleasure; sex positivity just makes sense. Why would
6 Ways To Keep Your Vagina Happy
January is Cervical Health Awareness Month. While that may sound like a really boring thing to celebrate, it's a really necessary conversation to have. Each year, over 12,000 people are diagnosed with cervical cancer and about a third of them