My sexual accessibility has never been up to me, and this was a crucial and painful epiphany to have. Content Warning: this essay mentions depression and instances of sexual coercion. It’s not that I haven’t been celibate before. As someone who lives in the gray area of the asexual and aromantic spectrums, I’ve gone long […]
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Black and Brown Women are Not Here for You
Black, indigenous and women of color are not your sin-eaters, we don’t exist to endure pain for the sake of our communities. The ...
Self-Love is About the Journey, Not the Destination
Committing to self-love whispered quietly in your mind is all you need to ground yourself in the work. Self-love is a term that's ...
14 Self-Care Tips for Sexual Assault Survivors Suffering from PTSD
In honor of Sexual Assault Awareness Month, here are some important self-care tips for when things become too much. For those ...
How I Faced the Unexpected with my Surgical Transition
I wanted to give those who read this and are getting any kind of transition surgery — or even just starting their transition in ...
Taking Self-Care Beyond its Commercialized Version
Self-care that fails to address the full dimension of individual healing simply isn't enough. Self-care honestly gets a bad rep. ...
