Much like intimate violence, gender identities and expressions that extend beyond the binary are subject to suspicion and flat-out denial. [TW- description of sexual assault and violence.] By Bani Amor Memory is a motherfucker. As an adult who copes with trauma from abuse, mostly
Wear Your Voice interviewed 6 trans and non-binary (NB) artists, in hopes that others will gain the confidence to know that they are not alone.Navigating spaces has never been easy for transgender and non-binary people who have to go through the hurdles of various forms of discrimination in the workplace, finding romantic partners, using public restrooms, violence, sexual assault and just being seen as human. Wear Your Voice interviewed 6 trans and non-binary (NB) artists, in hopes that others will gain the confidence to know that they are not alone, and that success has different definitions and different paths for each person.
Skylar is one of the most well-known Youtubers to document his transition under the pseudonym Skylareleven. He has documented his transition from female to male since 2009. He was super stoked about a lot of the physical and emotional changes that he was hoping would come from his transition and he wanted to share his experience in hopes it would help others. “Overall though, a lot of the work I did was just being a kind human to others, or at least the kind of human I wanted to be and needed for my younger self” he tells Wear Your Voice. He answered emails, he met with fans and other folks who needed support and has volunteered countless hours to mentoring and educating others. Skylar’s passion is to encourage others to live to their fullest and best life. He says that he initially felt scared to transition, he feared he would lose his friends, family and his future — and while he did lose some of those things, he also says he gained so much more. Skylar wants to be able to instill that type of optimism in others. He tells WYV, “with the rates of depression and suicide so high (and murder, especially of trans women of color), I want to remain visible and hopeful of a more just future for trans folks.” Skylar wants transgender and non-binary people to take their time, he says it’s so hard to grow and evolve so much at once, with his final word of advice to just keep moving and keep becoming. musician and model. She started modeling by accident. Torraine tells WYV, “My friend Ethan James Green shot me for his portrait series and it kind of started a snowball effect of people wanting to work with me.” From there it’s been a wild ride of ad campaigns editorials and runway shows. Torraine started in music making, officially, about a year ago. “It really just started with me wanting to make a soundtrack for an art show was organizing but I got so engulfed in the catharsis of putting your worldviews into an auditory experience. I realized music is the highest form of art for me.” Modeling really happened for Torraine because of her vision. “I think I have a skill for creative direction and big picture thinking. I creative direct my social media presence and my physical appearance and the things I say or don’t say in a way that a big business would. And I always have, even before people started paying attention to me.” Torraine says media savvy and strong brand integrity and creative direction are what have helped her a lot. She says you have to know who you are and come up with a strong, streamlined way to convey that to an audience in the easiest recognizable way. “Thinking big picture is so important.” Her advice to other transgender and non-binary creatives on putting their best talents forward, is to just do what you want on your own time. But don’t forget life is short. #TransCrowdFund and its spin-offs #DisabilityCrowdfund and #FemCrowdFund as a way to combat economic violence, which disproportionately harms marginalized groups. For her hashtags, specifically, it took diligence contacting various publications as frequently as possible to submit either requests for interviews or pitches to present them to the public herself. J. Skyler says luckily, a number of editors today have methods to contact and submit work to their publications right in their biography summaries on their social media pages. For her writing, following and speaking to fan-based publications on Twitter as well as professional writers led to her various columns and pieces being published and circulated. J. Skyler says her passion was inspired by everything related to fiction (animation, literature, fantasy, science fiction, adventure, etc.) which have been a passion of hers since she was very little. Altruism and doing whatever is possible to make the world a better and safe place for others has been her inspiration as well. "The two have often played off one another over the course of my life" she tells WYV. Her advice for other trans and NB folks is to create things for yourself first. Instead of publishing a public blog or making other forms of art or whatever inspires you for the masses, do it just for yourself — for your eyes only. That way when you're ready to show the world who you are and what you can do, you'll have a mountain of work collected over the years that you can surprise everyone with. "Doing things for your own entertainment or enjoyment take the pressure off of having to be perfect for everyone else. It gives you room to refine your talents without having to deal with deadlines or unnecessary critiques while you are still figuring things out." Rainbow Dust Portraiture, a fledgling art business. He loves painting portraits and he makes no secret of the fact that he is queer. Rainbow Dust was originally just a hobby Facebook page for him to share his art. After the 2016 election, he was dealing with such a profound sense of hopelessness that he decided he wanted to do something productive with his art and try to get his voice out there. It has taken a lot of hard work and study, but determined to make it work, Ritchie taught himself how to use programs such as Photoshop, he taught himself how to make Facebook pages and ads and portfolios and as he says, a lot of it has just been “experiment and see what works”. Ritchie is proud of what he has accomplished, and that he can see real progress in his art from the start until now. He’s always had a passion about LGBTQ rights above almost any other issue. His main focus is queer issues and fighting for queer equality. “They are basically my attempts to say, queer people are here, we’re not going away, we’re human beings, and you need to treat us with respect.” Ritchie says that he think it’s important for trans and NB people to put themselves out there and make their voices heard. “It’s easy for us to be trampled on, shoved out-of-the-way, and ignored if we’re silent”. Ritchie encourages us to get loud, get angry, and show the world we’re not going to accept disrespect and fear that so often ravages our community. He wants to encourage other trans and non-binary people to get out there make your art, write your heart out, and show the world that you’re a beautiful, valuable human being.
Although the magical girl genre inspires cisgender girls and women, the genre also has the potential to do the same for transgender and non-binary people.By Latonya Pennington Originating in Japan as a sub genre of Japanese anime, the magical girl genre is known for young girls utilizing special abilities, femininity, and cuteness to save the world from evil. This year marks the 20th anniversary of two groundbreaking magical girl shows, Sailor Moon and Revolutionary Girl Utena. While both shows are considered empowering for cisgender girls and women, I've come to relate to them and the entire magical girl genre differently as a Black femme non-binary demi-girl. Of the two shows, Revolutionary Girl Utena has made the most impact on me as a non-binary person. The anime tells the story of a teen girl named Utena Tenjou. When Utena's parents die when she is a child, Utena is comforted by a young man known as “The Prince”, who gives her a ring that will lead her to him. Utena is so impressed by The Prince that she decides to become a Prince herself. The ring causes Utena to attend Otori Academy, where Utena becomes embroiled in a conspiracy involving a series of duels surrounding the Rose Bride Anthy Himemiya. Two years ago, Utena sparked my gender queer awakening because she was a girl who desired to be a Prince and liked wearing a boy's uniform at school. She validated my high school experiences of liking t-shirts and pants and short hair over long hair and overly feminine clothes. When Utena gets scolded for wearing a boy's uniform, she spoke to my experience of being told, "Girls should have long hair." Utena made me realize that if I didn't consider myself a girl, then I could become something else.
The first-ever MTV Movie & TV Awards took place last night, and featured a handful of memorable moments highlighting gender and racial diversity. Here's a list of the most feminist moments that went down last night, hopefully signifying more progressive award